What Makes A High Quality Relationship?
Growing up, I watched my parents and their relationship. They obviously loved each other and weathered what life threw at them while raising four children.
Once I had grown up, and they didn't have as much stress from raising children, you could see them come into their own and really start to develop what had taken a back seat while doing the parenting and life thing.
Unfortunately, my mother died, but not before I saw the deep love that they had for each other manifest.
Years later I was talking to someone about marriage and as he was from an Indian background, he had an arranged marriage. This intrigued me, especially as he said that he couldn't stand his wife when he first met her, and now he couldn't imagine life without her. That is what got me started thinking about how to combine both of these examples of what I had seen.
One of the keys I realised, to a successful marriage, is to remove our emotions from the designing of our ideal relationship. We need to be analytical and in a sense take an outsiders view of who we are and what we need in a partner. I have found this to be very true as I have met many people who believe they know what they want in a partner and then after doing a bit of work with them, we find out that they have been looking for all the wrong things in a partner.
There is a balance needed between what matches with our partner and what complements our partner and what they bring to the relationship. There also needs to be an understanding of why they are in our lives and why they are the person we need to be with. It is not a simple process working out who you should have as a partner and why, but it is a completely necessary part of the journey of finding the person you should be with.
There are also many aspects to a high quality relationship and understanding how they apply and where makes a relationship easier to keep at a standard that we are happy with as well as making any challenges easier to negotiate.
Watch the video above to learn what are some of the things needed to understand to achieve a high quality relationship.
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- The 'Soul Mate Fast Track' System Cheat Sheet
An explanation of the six stages of the 'Soul Mate Fast Track' system and description of what is involved at each stage. This cheat sheet allows you to see how you can find your 'soul mate' faster and have the better quality relationship than you have always dreamed of and that you knew you deserved.
- The 'Better Dating Blueprint' System Cheat Sheet
An explanation of the five stages of the 'Better Dating Blueprint' system and a description of what is involved at each stage. This cheat sheet will show you how you can quickly and effectively 'pre-date' people to 'qualify' them to go on a date with you. This system saves you time, effort, money and most of all, emotions invested in relationships that are not right for you.
- The '2 1/2 Day Dating And Relationship Workshop' Cheat Sheet
A breakdown of the '2 1/2 Day Dating And Relationship' Workshop and what is involved with each of the sections. The workshop is designed to guide you through making sense of your past relationships, discovering what makes you a perfect partner for the right person, working out who you should be with and why, creating the relationship you've always dreamed of having that is easier than you thought possible. You also learn how to go out there and find them quickly and easily using the 'Better Dating Blueprint.' It is a fully self-contained journey delivered all in one weekend.